Tuesday, 21 April 2009

Bad Dayz Of Pregnancy

I`m workin as a waiter at Hampstead, normally I`m opening on sunday the whole restaurant, prepearing all the stuff, we need during service. Exciting day comin! Lazy Sumday on every sunday, you can have unlimited amount of food so realy busy day, you can imagine.

We just started to work, when my Love (Eniko) called me: she is bleeding, we musst to go to the doctor or something,it`s urgent! I left the place about 13:15. We went to Hampstead Free Hospital for scan or any help.

She had some examination, blood test and 2 hours anxious suspense, and the result was okay. The blood test result is fine, they said so.

Anyway we had got an appointment for scan on next day monday, because this hospital is not allowed to use the scan sundays... They could not say, everything is fine with the baby, because we need to scan first.

We left the hospital and I got back to work. About 5 o`clock. So the restaurant was upside down, mess an dirty dishes everywhere, and the busy time finished...

Here is a picture about Eniko, in the hospital:

















Monday: What happened on monday? We are pretty happy now, everything was okay with her, and we got the first baby photo:

Yes, this is our first baby in the uterus, growing but just six weeks and five days old. Beautifull!!

Saturday, 18 April 2009

First steps first pregnancy

First steps on the new way of our life.
I am almost 30 years old, my love is in 36, so we are responsible enough to take care of a baby. Hopefully.... Everybody has own view about parental matters, but having an opinion and real experience... that is not the same thing.
Many thoughts are running through my head. I ask myself : "Am I able to be a good father? Is my love a great mother? Could we spend a whole lifetime together, and our family (opposite many others)will be staying together?" and so on. But to be worried about everything - it`s not a way to go, I guess.
I trust ourself, I trust the fate leading us on a right way, I trust all the experience we have got by failures and mistakes. Everything is going to be fine.

I have got object lessons through my family, how we are not suppose to manage family matters, because my parents had so many fight with each other, my father use to be a drunk, I was beaten sometimes, the childhood meant mostly just smacks, shouts and brawls. I don`t want the same for my own child, that`s for sure.

Oh, before I forget, here is our positive pregnancy test, the first step:











http://www.womens-health.co.uk/preg_test.html

Pregnancy Family Happyness in our Life

Hello everyone, and welcome to my blog about pregnancy and family establishment. My name is Tamas, I was born in Hungary, but presently my girlfriend and me living and working in the UK, London.

The time has come, she is expecting, how it was planned, so we are really happy about it. When first time I realized, `` I`ll be a father, oh my God! ``, I knew my life has been changed forever.
We are responsible for a brand new life, we will raise up someone, and it`s dependent on us, what kind of human being our child becomes to. So this is not a joke, relevant decisions and great moments are coming.

Perhaps you are walking in my shoes, or just start to think about FAMILY and CHILD, or you are still too young to pay attention to the whole thing, but perhaps you interest about real stories with smiles and tears, new lifes and special moments.

If you do, please follow me, and day by day, week by week you can observe our ordinary life by pictures and chapters, I am going to share my thoughts and feelings about our FIRST FAMILY and FIRST BABY, who is already on the way!!!!

thank you